How to Give a Haircut to a Child with Autism
Giving a haircut to a child with autism can be a challenging experience for both children with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) and neurotypical individuals. However, with proper preparation and strategies in place, it is possible to help a child with autism become more accepting and less stressed when it comes to getting a haircut. In this article, we will discuss effective approaches to prepare and support a child with autism during a haircut, addressing the specific challenges they may face.
Familiarize the child with the task
One way to give a haircut to a child with autism is to familiarize them with the process. Start by showing them videos of children getting their hair cut. Watch these videos together with your child on a daily basis to gradually desensitize them to the sights and sounds of a haircut. This exposure will help reduce anxiety and make the experience more predictable.
Incorporate haircut into play
Incorporating the haircut into playtime can be a valuable strategy. Purchase dolls or toys with hair and simulate a haircut during play sessions. Use the same tools and equipment that will be used during the actual haircut, such as scissors or an electric machine. Invite your child to participate in the process, from placing an apron around the toy to spraying water and imitating the cutting action. By making it a fun and interactive experience, you can further familiarize your child with the task.
Add literature and social stories
Reading books or creating social stories about getting a haircut can be beneficial. Look for books that depict the task of getting a haircut and read them to your child. Additionally, create a personalized social story that breaks down each step of the haircut using simple and understandable language accompanied by pictures. The social story should cover everything from leaving the house to returning home after the haircut. This visual aid will help your child understand the sequence of events and reduce uncertainty.
Be a real-life model
Taking your child with you for your own haircut can serve as an effective demonstration. Let your child observe you getting a haircut and demonstrate appropriate behavior during the process. Seeing you remain calm and cooperative can help alleviate their anxiety and serve as a positive example for them to follow.
Role play at home
Before visiting a hair salon, create opportunities for role-playing the haircut at home. Go through all the steps of a haircut, except for physically cutting your child’s hair. By practicing the routine in a familiar setting, your child can become more comfortable with the process and gain a sense of control.
Add a visual schedule
Visual aids can assist in breaking down the task of a haircut into smaller, manageable steps. Write down the different steps involved in a haircut and create corresponding pictures for each step. Arrange the pictures in sequential order to form a visual schedule. Use this schedule during play and role-playing activities to help your child understand the process and what to expect.
Use reinforcement
Positive reinforcement is essential in motivating and rewarding your child for their participation in the haircut task. Offer praise, hugs, kisses, small treats, or preferred toys and activities as rewards for completing each small step. This reinforcement will not only make the experience more enjoyable for your child but also reinforce their cooperation in future haircuts.
Remember, every child is unique, and their strengths and challenges may vary. Observe your child, be flexible, and meet them at their level. Develop an individualized approach to the haircut task that accommodates their needs, and work towards making the experience as pleasant as possible. With patience, preparation, and the implementation of these strategies, you can help your child with autism overcome their aversions and anxieties related to haircuts.
Also read: How to Teach Autistic Children to Brush their Teeth
About Olga Sirbu
My name is Olga Sirbu, I am a Board Certified Behavior Analyst (BCBA) and Licensed Applied Behavioral Analyst. My goal is to support and empower families and individuals on the autism spectrum.
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